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Ep. 62—Overcoming Catholic Courting Hangups & Social Isolation

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Jan 19, 2020

We have all heard the complaints about Catholic courting. Catholics
have bother with the idea of “informal courting” as a result of they
(rightly) see courting as oriented towards marriage however (wrongly) put
all that weight on a single date. Some are perpetually “discerning”
with out ever actually going anyplace. Ladies really feel like if they do not
discover a partner throughout their 4 years at a Catholic school,
they’ve missed their likelihood.

Some issues we share with the remainder of the world: Males will not ask
girls out as a result of they’re timid or tranquilized by video video games and
porn. Ladies usually really feel they need to placed on a persona, whether or not of a
Jane Austen character or a “fierce” feminist (YAAAAS, SLAY
QUEEN!).

Matchmaker Emily Zanotti, generally known as the “Catholic Yenta”, joins
the present to debate these and different pathologies of Catholic courting,
and explains how she went from serving to her pals discover their
spouses to handpicking matches for individuals throughout the nation.

Additionally interviewed is Eric Niehaus, creator of a
soon-to-be-launched occasions app known as Koin, which can enable
Catholics to search out and plan actions and occasions with different
Catholics of their space. In a world wherein Catholics usually really feel
socially remoted, Koin goals to assist us foster real-life
neighborhood.

Pt. 1: Emily Zanotti (Catholic Yenta)

[2:55] How Emily discovered herself within the position of Catholic
matchmaker

[5:32] Why a matchmaker is in demand; issues with courting
websites

[6:47] How the matchmaking course of works and Emily’s position in
follow-up

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[9:31] What data is helpful to Emily in matching individuals;
prayer as the idea of the method

[12:23] Success fee thus far, future growth

[15:03] What Emily has discovered speaking to Jewish and Hindu
matchmakers

[18:39] Widespread points and complaints from the Catholic courting
scene

[23:34] “Perpetual discernment” and unrealistic expectations in
the Catholic courting pool

[28:35] Danger, safety and the Disney princess syndrome

[30:29] Male timidity and sloth exacerbated by video video games,
porn, and feminism

[34:58] Why some girls suppose they should placed on a persona when
courting

Pt. 2: Eric Niehaus (Koin)

[42:20] The that means of the title Koin and the necessity for a
particularly Catholic occasions app

[44:45] Deliberate progress of the platform, metropolis by metropolis

[46:36] Challenges of getting a brand new social platform off the
floor

[48:47] Cultivating neighborhood each in pre-existing organizations
and parishes and within the wider geographical space

[50:51] How Koin goals to accomplice with and praise
parishes

[54:06] Extending participation past the younger grownup bracket;
the advantages of spending time with individuals who aren’t your age

[57:52] Overcoming social stratification amongst Catholics

Hyperlinks

Catholic Yenta type https://docs.google.com/types/d/e/1FAIpQLSdHOdPqLqQi5weQVnMqCWOZpBXUVxNKYD3Isgkf5oRsX63Kqw/viewform

Emily Zanotti on Twitter https://twitter.com/emzanotti

Koin http://www.meetkoin.com/

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